Monday, November 9, 2009

Being the eldest daughter in the family

Being the eldest daughter in the family for two little sister is hard and also not to mention diffucult. When my sister ask me to do things that I dont want to do, they will ask mum to scold me so that I can do what they want just because they are the youngest. Other than that, they always follow what I do maybe because I am the oldest so they think they can follow but sometimes if they get in trouble my name is always the first one that they will mention.

But now as I grow older, I tend to think that having a little sister is good. Last time when I was young I was always the one who get in trouble because of them. They always follow me where ever I go, what I do and what I say so it is very irratating. But now, I dont think as them my enemy but my sister. I start taking care of them and give them what they want. Eventhough they sometimes dont listen to what I say and I get mad but I have to understand that when I was young and my brother was the eldest he also feel the same thing do so I have to be patience on them.

As time flies by and by I start thinking that this is my responsibility for taking care of them and loving them. Even though sometimes I yell at them and say that I hate them but in the real life I love them. If I look back on having a little sister it is a blessing for me bacause some people only have one daughter or one son. So it good that I have a sister who I can talk with and play with sometimes when I am alone. They will always be my little sister eventhough we are all grow up and every minute I tried to be there for them as my brother was there for me.

1 comment:

  1. But it's okey... they are still little... i have a three brothers too..! but sometimes you just have to forgive them... life is nothing but a learning process...XD...so...,don't worry...

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